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Empowering adults with disabilities to enjoy fulfilling relationships and intimacy. Breaking down barriers and providing practical advice for enhancing relationships.

Important: This site is intended for adults 18 years of age or older.

I'm not dead - A positive message about living fully with disabilities

My Story

A personal journey of resilience, adaptation, and rediscovery

I was a normal(ish), happy-go-lucky kinda guy until I came off my motorbike, in spectacular fashion, in July of 1999.

I broke my back in three places, T4, 5 & 6.... my neck in three places, C3, 4 & 5.... smashed my left knee.... broke my clavicle.... and a rib or two.... punctured a lung.... and died for longer than is recommended.... somewhere between 5 and 15 minutes.

The end result being that I was left paralyzed from the chest down and reliant on a wheelchair for getting about.

My philosophy on life is such that we should all play the cards that life deals us to the best of our ability. So I set about becoming a happy-go-lucky paraplegic.

The most important question: How do I get my love life back on track?

Wheelchair and resilience

Medical Solutions

Evidence-based options to help restore sexual function and intimacy

Viagra

A well-known PDE5 inhibitor that helps increase blood flow and can restore erectile function in many men.

Works best when taken on an empty stomach. Side effects may include headaches and flushing.

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Erec-Aid (Vacuum Pump)

A vacuum pump device that creates suction around the penis, drawing blood into it, then trapped with tension rings.

Only leave bands on for 30 minutes maximum. Can be tricky at first but gets easier with practice.

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Cialis

Another effective medication for erectile dysfunction, similar to Viagra but with different duration and characteristics.

Consult with your healthcare provider for detailed information about dosage and usage.

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Alprostadil

An injectable treatment option for erectile dysfunction that works directly at the injection site.

Requires proper medical guidance and training for safe administration.

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Penile Implant

A surgical solution for erectile dysfunction when other treatments are not effective or suitable.

Requires consultation with a urologist specializing in implant procedures.

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Lifestyle & Equipment

Additional resources for comfort, positioning, and enhancing your experience

Outfits & Toys

Specially designed clothing and adult products that can enhance comfort and accessibility during intimate moments.

Adaptive clothing and accessories designed with accessibility in mind.

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Apparatus & Positioning

Specialized apparatus and positioning aids designed to provide support and enhance comfort during intimate activities.

Custom positioning solutions and supportive equipment for improved accessibility.

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Chairs & Spares

Specialized wheelchair equipment, spares, and modifications to enhance mobility and comfort.

Replacement parts, upgrades, and custom modifications for wheelchairs.

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Personal Stories

Real experiences and perspectives from our community

I was a normal(ish), happy-go-lucky kinda guy until I came off my motorbike, in spectacular fashion, in July of 1999.

I broke my back in three places, T4, 5 & 6.... my neck in three places, C3, 4 & 5.... smashed my left knee.... broke my clavicle.... and a rib or two.... punctured a lung.... and died for longer than is recommended.... somewhere between 5 and 15 minutes.

The end result being that I was left paralyzed from the chest down and reliant on a wheelchair for getting about.

My philosophy on life is such that we should all play the cards that life deals us to the best of our ability. So I set about becoming a happy-go-lucky paraplegic.

The most important question: How do I get my love life back on track?

IMPORTANT.... and what can I say?

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