My Story

I was a normal(ish), happy-go-lucky kinda guy until I came off my motorbike, in spectacular fashion, in July of 1999.

I broke my back in three places, T4, 5 & 6.... my neck in three places, C3, 4 &5.... smashed my left knee.... broke my clavicle.... and a rib or two.... punctured a lung.... and died for longer than is recommended.... somewhere between 5 and 15 minutes. The end result being that I was left paralyzed from the chest down and reliant on a wheelchair for getting about.

I won't bore you with all the reasons that I had to count my blessings.... suffice to say that my philosophy on life is such that we should all play the cards that life deals us to the best of our ability. So I set about becoming a happy-go-lucky paraplegic.

The most important, and overriding question being....

How do I get my love life back on track?

After many hours of trawling the net looking for information and inspiration.... and coming to dead end after dead end. I decided to create a website that catered for people that found themselves in a similar position.

If you don't find answers to any of the questions that you have, just contact us, and we'll do our very best to supply you with the answer.